1. He Only Wants To Hang Out On His Turf
Dr. Marshall says to really look out for this one. "This is a biggie!" If he's not willing to make the effort to come to you, then it implies that he wants you to do all the work in the relationship. "If he's into you, he will be interested in your home, your friends, your life. If there is no interest, it is not a relationship."
2. 90% Of The Time, You Call Him
All relationships are built upon mutuality. It's important to take these little signs into consideration, and remember that you deserve better. Dr. Marshall advises, "If you do all the calling, he's not that invested. Step back, and put yourself on phone restriction. If he's interested, he'll call. If he's not, he won't." Yes, it will be painful when you realize that he hasn't called in a few weeks. But it will allow you to realize that you do, indeed, deserve better, and eventually, you'll be able to move on.
3. He Always Has An Excuse To Get Out Of Meeting Your Friends And Family
This relates back to the reality that if he's interested, he wants to be a part of what is important to you. He wants to meet the people who you grew up with, who raised you, and who you spend most of your days with. "If he's not willing to meet your family and friends," says Dr. Marshall, "it is because he does not envision himself being a part of your life."
Saturday, October 8, 2011
He's Just Not Into You...II
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